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Is watching someone masturbate considered cheating?

Is watching someone masturbate considered cheating?

Odd_ball_1659

Well I would have said that is fucking sexual harrasment. But seems you consented(?), but this is weird AF and this dude should be ban from all gyms for life. What is this? A porno? Anyways, ya you definitely crossed a line.


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Odd_ball_1659

Yes and no. Yes cause you stayed and pulled out your own dick, but no cause wtf just pulls out their dick and starts masturbating in front of someone in a steam room. I would be more concerned how you feel about this tbh and how we can get that dude ban from the gym. Serious rapey vibes there.


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Odd_ball_1659

Yes I will cause I believe in honesty, but more improtantly I will report this dude to the gym.


MaggieLuisa

Yes. You did sexual stuff with someone outside your relationship.


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garlicybread16

you could have left


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gh954

In this situation it's pretty irrelevant what cheating is to you. It's what cheating is to your partner that really matters, and he can't make that judgement without him knowing about it.


MaggieLuisa

You did engage with him. You looked (‘a few glances’ is still looking’), you masturbated in front of him too, and most importantly, you stayed and let it happen. It doesn’t magically not become cheating because you didn’t touch him. Sexting and sending nudes is cheating too.


garlicybread16

you cheated.


Constant_Seaweeed69

I was going tosay it was sexual harrassment, but the moment you decided to whip your dick put and touch it instead of leaving , thats when it turned to cheating


Misspinksweater

I think some people would definitely consider it cheating. the way I think about it, is I ask myself if my partner was in my position would I consider it cheating? If your partner went to the gym and watched another guy play with himself would you think he cheated on you? You definitely need to talk to him about this and tell him. It's your relationship only the two of you know if it's cheating.


KlienKravis44

tell your partner


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KlienKravis44

i’m saying tell your partner because it’s up to both of YOU to agree that it’s cheating. not reddit. however, i would absolutely think this is cheating if i was in the relationship. i would not pass this off as an awkward conversation at all. also, when you tell him, do NOT leave out the part where you engaged sexually in return. you are not innocent here.


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Sad_Ad_6712

Wtf, bro that’s not cool what he did. No matter what gender or sexuality he is. This is straight up harassment. I don’t think it’s cheating, who tf does that.


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